Sunday, August 8, 2010

Friend-Raising

For the past few years, I’ve kept my eyes open for opportunities to work in the mission field in a Spanish-speaking country. As a Lutheran, I’ve been particularly interested in serving through Lutheran Church Missouri Synod (LCMS) World Mission. However, after learning that a missionary working for LCMS World Mission needs to fundraise all the money needed for a year in order to support him/herself as a missionary, I put going to the mission field on a back burner, because raising that much money seemed like a daunting task I’d rather not undertake.


Then an amazing opportunity presented itself: serving as a missionary in a relatively new field in Peru, going to language school, planning missions trips, and helping start churches in the Lima area. It sounded so wonderful I didn’t let the fundraising deter me. I got the job. I was excited! And then I began the task of raising $22,000 so I could go.


I decided to write letters describing my new job and my needs to close friends, family, and former students first. It sounds simple enough, but it was stressful. I spent many hours thinking about and composing the list of people who would receive letters. I didn’t want to offend anyone. I didn’t want to make people feel guilty if they couldn’t help me financially. I didn’t want to make people feel obligated to send money. But I also didn’t want to not give people the opportunity to help spread the Gospel in Peru one way or another. More than anything I just wanted to tell others about the mission opportunity because I was so excited about it!


In addition to letters, I scheduled three presentations at different churches in the area. The churches kindly said they would take door offerings for me the day that I presented, so I started to work on putting together a presentation. Again, I put much thought into what to say. I didn’t want to give the impression that the only reason I was giving presentations was to get money. I genuinely believe that prayer support and other help is just as important as the money. I wanted to be sure to convey that message.


Thus, the fundraising process started with some anxiety and uncertainty.


Then I received a book from LCMS World Mission entitled “Friend-Raising.” At first, I thought it was just a gimmick we were supposed to use when asking for money--an attempt to make our ask for money seem less like an ask for money. I honestly didn’t read much of the book. I sent the letters, and I did the presentations.


And then things started happening that made me realize that friend-raising is a much more accurate term than fundraising. I got a call from a man in Kansas I had never met who wanted to support me. He had heard about me from his friend in Denver who is good friends with my parents. This same Denver friend told another woman about me, so a few weeks later I got a very encouraging and excited email from her. She happens to be a former student of my parents from the Denver days. My babysitter from 25 years ago not only donated to the mission work, but wants to have her first grade class correspond with first graders in Peru and help spread the Gospel that way. Another long-time family friend organized a porch party so we could get together with other old friends of the family, and it was great to be able to share the story of missions in Peru with them. Through my presentations at the churches, I received so many encouraging words and met kind, God-fearing people ready to support me in various ways and excited to hear news from the field. And honestly, it took my breath away to look at the first financial report and see the generosity of others.


What’s even more wonderful is knowing that all those people who sent money and told others about the mission work and heard my presentations truly are my friends in this mission. I can go to them to share my frustrations, my sorrows, and my joys as I work in Peru. I can depend on them to give me encouragement, prayer, and rejoice with me when things go well. What an empowerment as I get ready to serve in an exciting and challenging new mission field!


It’s a great example of how God uses the church body to support one another. Every person involved with a ministry has a unique and vital role. Some give, some tell, some send, some go, others encourage, and still others pray. Most do a combination of these things. Each job is necessary, and no job is more important than the other. As Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 12:4-7, “Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone. To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.” I feel so blessed and privileged to serve as a part of the body of Christ.


And, as frequently happens in life, those things which we dread or seem difficult turn out to be the biggest blessings.

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